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Hello. I am Lady Elswet, High Priestess of the DragonFyre Weyr, Inc. Wiccan/Pagan Church/Coven, and 24/7 Lifestyle Dominatrix of My husband, geryn. I take My responsibilities as his Keeper, Domme, and Wife seriously, and therefore made the decision to take him to a professional shop to have his piercings done. I was very concerned about disease, infection, and having them straight and beautiful. Trust Me when I say that he was NOT allowed numbing cream or any other pain reliever in preparation of these piercings, nor was he allowed anything for pain after the fact. [wicked laugh]

I find it bizarre that I have to add this, but for some reason, some submissives [who ARE you people, anyway?!] have taken issue with the fact that I took My one to a professional for these piercings. I say any Dom/me who does NOT take the well-being, health, and appearance of Their one seriously is leaving Him/Herself open for legal litigation & moral and ethical repercussions! Dom/mes who do not care for Their slave[s] should be prosecuted!
Pain is one way to serve. Through pain, the submissive demonstrates his/her willingness to please, inner strength and ability to stick with the task at hand. Allowing the Dominant to rid Him/Herself of Their own emotional and/or physical pain by giving it to the submissive, is both a way of allowing the submissive to help the Dom/me, as well as giving the Dom/me the control He/She needs.

"Pain is love, Love is pain." It's been said for centuries. Through the careful and loving administration of pain, the Dom/me (the Sadist) is allowed to demonstrate Their own kind of love unto the submissive. The submissive (the masochist) acknowledges that receiving the pain from his/her Loved One is not merely submission, but the receiving of Their love, at the same time.

my One wished for me, not only to feel the pain of being pierced, but also to have another way to further collar me. i freely gave this to Her as a gift of my love of Her and my devotion to the lifestyle in which Wwe live. She is my One. THE One; and anything She wishes, if it is within my power, She will have.

i adore my One, and feeling Her pain, even in the sterile environment of a piercing studio, is something i need. i've felt the pain of others my whole life. Every day, someone would hurt me. It was NOT out of love, nor was it out of a need to do anything but be mean to me. i was victimized my whole life. Now, i am no longer a victim. i am a volunteer. i volunteer to spend the rest of my days as husband to my Lady, my Goddess, my Mistress and my Love.

The care process with this kind of piercing is ardent and trying, but the final product is well worth the trouble. That and the look on my Mistress's face whenever She looks at them, makes it all worthwhile. She has me shirtless most of the time when Wwe are at home. First, because She says it will help them to heal better (it can take up to 18 months) when exposed to the air, and also because She just loooooves how they look. *lol*

Now that the piercing's a few months old, i am amazed at how good they look. i feel a great sense of pride in having first undergone the pain, and secondly in the appearance of my body. It has greatly affected how i view myself. i have a sense of pride and accomplishment in having submitted to the piercings and my One is very pleased in how they look, and how well i handled the process.

Pain is merely a tool. It's nothing to be avoided, dreaded nor denied. Life is pain, is it not? By Mastering the pain given to Your submissive, You not only bring the Sadistic side of Yourself, joy...but You also allow Your submissive the honor of serving; the power to allow it by not running, saying no, or just withdrawing; and the inner strength in knowing that if they can do this, they can succeed at anything.

• Read another submissive's words on pain, and serving his Mistress.

.: click on any image to get a larger view :. Hello. I am Lady Elswet, High Priestess of the DragonFyre Weyr, Inc. Wiccan/Pagan Church/Coven, and 24/7 Lifestyle Dominatrix of My husband, geryn. I take My responsibilities as his Keeper, Domme, and Wife seriously, and therefore made the decision to take him to a professional shop to have his piercings done. I was very concerned about disease, infection, and having them straight and beautiful. Trust Me when I say that he was NOT allowed numbing cream or any other pain reliever in preparation of these piercings, nor was he allowed anything for pain after the fact. [wicked laugh] I find it bizarre that I have to add this, but for some reason, some submissives [who ARE you people, anyway?!] have taken issue with the fact that I took My one to a professional for these piercings. I say any Dom/me who does NOT take the well-being, health, and appearance of Their one seriously is leaving Him/Herself open for legal litigation & moral and ethical repercussions! Dom/mes who do not care for Their slave[s] should be prosecuted!
		Pain is one way to serve. Through pain, the submissive demonstrates his/her willingness to please, inner strength and ability to stick with the task at hand. Allowing the Dominant to rid Him/Herself of Their own emotional and/or physical pain by giving it to the submissive, is both a way of allowing the submissive to help the Dom/me, as well as giving the Dom/me the control He/She needs.
		"Pain is love, Love is pain." It's been said for centuries. Through the careful and loving administration of pain, the Dom/me (the Sadist) is allowed to demonstrate Their own kind of love unto the submissive. The submissive (the masochist) acknowledges that receiving the pain from his/her Loved One is not merely submission, but the receiving of Their love, at the same time.
		my One wished for me, not only to feel the pain of being pierced, but also to have another way to further collar me. i freely gave this to Her as a gift of my love of Her and my devotion to the lifestyle in which Wwe live. She is my One. THE One; and anything She wishes, if it is within my power, She will have.
		i adore my One, and feeling Her pain, even in the sterile environment of a piercing studio, is something i need. i've felt the pain of others my whole life. Every day, someone would hurt me. It was NOT out of love, nor was it out of a need to do anything but be mean to me. i was victimized my whole life. Now, i am no longer a victim. i am a volunteer. i volunteer to spend the rest of my days as husband to my Lady, my Goddess, my Mistress and my Love.
		The care process with this kind of piercing is ardent and trying, but the final product is well worth the trouble. That and the look on my Mistress's face whenever She looks at them, makes it all worthwhile. She has me shirtless most of the time when Wwe are at home. First, because She says it will help them to heal better (it can take up to 18 months) when exposed to the air, and also because She just loooooves how they look. lol
		Now that the piercing's a few months old, i am amazed at how good they look. i feel a great sense of pride in having first undergone the pain, and secondly in the appearance of my body. It has greatly affected how i view myself. i have a sense of pride and accomplishment in having submitted to the piercings and my One is very pleased in how they look, and how well i handled the process.
Pain is merely a tool. It's nothing to be avoided, dreaded nor denied. Life is pain, is it not? By Mastering the pain given to Your submissive, You not only bring the Sadistic side of Yourself, joy...but You also allow Your submissive the honor of serving; the power to allow it by not running, saying no, or just withdrawing; and the inner strength in knowing that if they can do this, they can succeed at anything. • Read another submissive's words on pain, and serving his Mistress.