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If your soul mate is an Aries, what you will have to endure is anger, arrogance, and self-centeredness. Learn to acknowledge that you can stay calm in the face of a storm, and that any arrogance or self-centeredness that your mate expresses could represent a karmic need to believe in himself. His lack of esteem is usually generated by his mother, but sometimes is of an adult nature in that their self esteem and confidence were destroyed by a lover, a potential lover or one who has gilted him badly.

With a Taurus, you will more than likely see extreme stubbornness, lassitude, and penny-pinching alternating with lavish spending. They are sometimes also what is termed "binge alcoholics," having gone months and months without a drink and then disappearing for days at a time, spending lavish amounts of money on alcohol. This also applies to gambling and other vices. That having been said, it's also possible that your mate is learning to stand by their guns and believe in themselves. What appears to be laziness may actually be a need to rest after a lot of hard work, and Taureans are here to learn how to deal with resources.

Geminis can drive us to insanity with their eldlessly morphing behaviors. One moment they want something so bad they seem obsessed with it, and the next moment they totally change their minds. They never wanted it. What ARE you talking about?! Perhaps you need to assist your mate in the area of focus. Or perhaps you need to learn to just let go and enjoy the feeling of being adrift...freefalling, as it were.

Sagittarians can be more unpredictible than their Gemini counterparts. The difference is, Sagittarian unpredictiblilty encompasses a much grander portion of their lives and can operate on a broader scope. Your Sagittarian mate could declare three hours before the wedding that he's just not ready. Don't panic or lose control. Just lovingly and firmly walk him down the aisle.

A Capricorn will often act cold and unloving. But don't let that fool you. That calm, emotionless mask hides the inner fires of a real fanatic. Their stoic exterior usuall00y means they'd like you to just ... go away, please. When they're ready, they'll be their usual, friendly, down-to-earth self.

Does your Aquarius mate seem to love their casual acquaintances than they do you? A relationship with an Aquarius is truly a test of your self esteem and confidence. Aquarians need the stimulation of a lot of minds, and therefore will be extremely social creatures. Don't be jealous of his friends, as most of them are extemporaneously in his life, and don't just assume that you aren't cherished. Just temporarily spend your time doing something YOU enjoy. But beware! Because Aquarians tend to feel petty and jealous very easily, steer clear of flaunting YOUR outside friendships and acquaintances.

Romance IS the Piscean. They are absolute perfectionists in all that they do; be it work, sports, art, or love. As silly and ridiculous as it may seem, you have to let your Piscean mourn for his failures, no matter how stupid you think it is. Once that's done, you must then show them how to pick up their pieces and move along with life.

If your mate is a Cancer, they tend be very suspicious, jealous, and possessive, and see betrayal behind every corner and every face. It is possible the challenge for you here is to create a higher relationship of trust in one whose insecurities make them inclined to be more suspicious than everyone else. Perhaps he feels something from you that says, "Untrustworthy," in which case you may need to do something about yourself. Additionally, the challenge here could be in finding the courage to just pick up and walk away. There are more soul mates which which you can improve yourself.

Leos are born hams, and sometimes their mates get totally eeee-NOUGH-!!- OF their over-dramatizations of all life's little ups and downs. They also crave to be the center of attention. Remember that like their child-like behavior, they too are like children. Those well-known gargantuan egos actually mask a lot of insecurities. Don't try to give them an attitude adjustment. It will only lend to pointless arguments and strife. Instead, let them know that they are the best! The more you nurse the ego, the less the insecurities rear their ugly heads.

Virgo mates hide their numerous insecurities by expecting perfection of everyone - including the one they love the most. Virgos are more likely to nag and criticize than any other sign. Their mates have to realize that they don't expect any thing or any MORE of anyone than they do of themselves. Actually, they are usually hardest on themselves! With this understanding, you can see why it is important with your Virgo mate, to give love and complements to tone down their critical perspectives. It takes time and patience, but it works. (I'm Virgoan)

Librans have a problem with decisions. This is not so much a character flaw, as the result of being able to see both sides to almost any given situation. Learn to give your Libran mate a gentle steering in the decision-making process. Also, while Librans tend to be visionaries, they are more factual than opinionated and are therefore more influenced by the facts which you can produce, than your opinions on the situation.

Scorpios can make us feel abandoned and unloved. It is usually purely unintentional; however, their dark moods and need for solitude rarely (if ever) reflect us; only themselves. They need quiet, peace, and solitude in order to work out their inner conflicts and personal issues. When a Scorpio hermeticizes, just go on and do something by yourself. They'll butterfly from their stasistic coccoon, and be as sweet, loving, and full of fire as ever.

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